Almost each man thinks he is the best stallion during sex, but we all should admit that men may be doing some things in a wrong way. Sex is something to be enjoyed, not wring hands over and we are here to guide you in the right direction! So, here are 10 sex mistakes men make in bed way too often. Dudes, make sure you’re not doing any of them.
1. You skip on the foreplay
Women love foreplay. We adore being kissed and explored. We consider foreplay an essential part of sex. When we don’t indulge in foreplay, we feel like we’re being jipped. Skipping foreplay makes sex feel rushed.
Yes, there are times when sex is so passionate that foreplay is absolutely unthinkable. And then, it’s totally awesome. But when foreplay is regularly omitted, we’re not happy. Spend time kissing and caressing us, please.
2. You use the same position
Sex should never be predictable. Women don’t ever want to have sex in the exact same position every time. We like sex to be the opposite of routine. We want it to be sensual and exciting. Remember how you couldn’t keep your hands off of us in the beginning of the relationship? Well, we want you to always feel that way.
3. Twiddling her nipple
Nipples are sensitive and should be treated gently. They should not be treated like radio dials. Don’t play with them like they’re joysticks, thinking they twist in every direction you want them to.
4. Ignoring the rest of her body
A woman is made up of more than two breasts and a vagina. Pay attention to the rest of her. Also Read: Top 12 Sex Mistakes Women Make in Bed, According To Men
5. Mute Sex
This is just the worst. Ever wonder why you’re so easily turned on while watching porn or a particularly racy movie scene? It’s because the added sounds of oomph up the sex quotient just that much and have you completely in the mood! Women don’t want to watch a silent, grimacing man on top of them (or underneath them) exerting all his strength as he pushes into her. Mix it up a bit! Bring out your inner Bradley Cooper and unleash the sounds you’re dying to make. Trust us, she won’t think they’re weird
6. Pornstar Sex
It’s time we broke something to you. Porn sex, like wrestling and the tooth fairy, isn’t real – and nothing good can come from thinking it is. That means not every person is going to want your, erm, stuff all over their face, or surprise anal sex or BDSM out of nowhere. We’re humans, not actors (or wrestlers, before you try a sexy suplex). 10 Tips To Maintain Your Sexual Health & Have A Healthy Sex Life
7. Pushing Her Head During A Blowjob
Women usually know what they are meant to do when they’re going downtown. There are chances, of course, that she isn’t as fast as you might like, or going at the angle that particularly gets you going. Do, do refrain, good sirs, from yanking the top of her head and pushing it down on your penis, however. Not only is it a completely ungentlemanly thing to do—it also turns her off for good. A little verbal direction of course is awesome, and guide her with your words while she’s at it.
8. Don’t cum on her face
While we are sure that there might be some women out there who like it, most, however, shrink in horror at the idea of having to go clean up their breasts, chin, stomach after the ridiculous act. This isn’t fun for women, gentlemen, and she won’t be forgetting the turn-off in a hurry. Also Read: Top 10 Sexual Hygiene Habits Men & Women Must Follow
9. Kissing After Going Downtown
NO woman likes this, men. As sexy as it might look on television or in print, no real woman actually wants to taste herself on your lips right after you’ve gone down on her. Do the hygienic thing and wipe your mouth. Then come back for a long, lingering kiss—you deserve it, soldier!
10. You won’t stay and cuddle
After sex, most women are filled with a lot of emotions. Their bodies have just released oxytocin, which causes them to be a little needier than usual. It’s their hormones fault, not ours! As a result, they like to relax for a few minutes after sex and sometimes even cuddle.
When you’re in a rush to go somewhere, you’re hurting their feelings. Stay and give your women a few minutes of extra love.
So there you are gentlemen! We hope this information will help you. If you know of any other sex mistakes men make, please do tell us about them in the comments section or through email.
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